This is an excellent prompt, and I have a pretty simple answer. I try to live by Rule Number One, and I don’t sugarcoat it. The rule is, simply: don’t be a dick. It’s a philosophy I’ve always held but I didn’t have the words for it until 2021 when my wife and I took our first cruise and made friends with the Fun Squad. One of them shared the simple words with us and it stuck. For me, as long as you are living your life without hurting yourself or anyone else,  you do you. Easy enough, right?